Tuesday, March 26, 2013

Tess's First Days in the Field: Not what she expected!


Tess’s first letter from Ogden/Roy, Utah                                    March 26, 2013

I don't even know where to start with this letter.. I'm finally out of the MTC! We got up around 5 on Monday morning and took a bus ride to the train station. It was really weird to be in a car and not doing the things we had been doing every morning for 6 weeks straight. We felt pretty free though. We got to ride in a train called the frontrunner or something like that and H. Hales and I mostly just practiced some Spanish vocab until we got to the mission home in Ogden. The mission president and his wife as well as the other leaders were welcoming and just went over some basic rules with us after we ate breakfast (PS I'm sure you can imagine how ecstatic I am to be done eating that MTC "food").

After that we met our new trainers/moms. Mine is Hermana Marcum. She's been on her mission a bit over a year, she's really friendly, she's from Ohio, and she went to that small LDS school in Virginia where she majors in Opera. I'm not really sure exactly what to think of her so far, but I think she'll be able to teach me a lot and we'll be able to get along pretty well. After I talked to her a little she told me some of the greatest news ever which is that I'd be living with her, her old companion, and HERMANA HALES (who's being trained by her old companion, Hermana Kreutzer- I probably spelled that wrong). Obviously we're a little bit excited that we get to still see each other a lot and go on our morning jogs and what not. Hermana Hales' companion, Hermana Kreutzer is awesome too- she's also been here a bit over a year, she's from California (only like 30 minutes away from where H. Hales lives) and she's so cute and fun to be around.

We're serving in a town called Roy which is like 10 minutes outside of Ogden. I don't know much about it except that both our trainers have only been there like 3 weeks and are still trying to get a feel for the area, but their having problems because the Elders that were there before them didn't keep great records of who they taught and what not so we have a lot of work to do to figure that all out (I forgot to mention that we have a car too, but now we'll have to take turns using it because there's four of us). Also, apparently we're "pink-washing" the area which means that it's the first time that sister missionaries have been in this stake or something like that. I guess the members are really excited about that because something had happened in the past with some Elders where they offended some members in the area and it's been hard for the missionaries to regain their trust, so that's what we'll be trying to do.

A bit more about our house- we don't actually live in Roy but we live close by. The house is pretty nice and it's owned by a couple who are probably in their 50s. They have kids but they're out of the house and they have a bunch of really cute grand kids. We met the husband yesterday and he was quite the talker- I think he just really loves having us there and he and his wife apparently have been spoiling the hermanas because they insist that their food is our food, they bought brand new beds and comforters for each of us, and they're even building a bathroom in the basement for us. It's pretty crazy, but I can't complain. There's also goats and horses in their backyard.

We only stayed at the house for a few minutes to put our stuff down and eat lunch because then we had to go back to the mission home for a 4 hour lesson from Brother Donaldson- one of the leaders who was on the series the District 2. It was incredible and I learned a ton about how to be a better teacher (well, we're more guides than we are teachers as he put it) and how to use the pamphlets more effectively- those things are super useful and they didn't really teach us how to use them at the MTC. He also hinted that more things are about to change as far as missionary work goes, and we might be one of the missions chosen to pilot some new things they're trying out. Pretty crazy.

After that lesson, the day got a little weird. Maybe it's just because the MTC was super strict or something but I did not expect my first day as a missionary to be like it was. We went over to the President & his wife's house for a "sleepover" with all of the sisters in the mission- which is like 30 or 40ish sisters. We were told just to socialize and then we'd have dinner, which was fine. Herm. Hales and I tried to talk to some of the other hermanas/sisters (most were English speaking, not Spanish) but they were more focused on just socializing with the girls they already knew, so that was kind of annoying and relatively unsuccessful. Anyways after dinner we played get to know you jeopardy which wasn't really useful to us, the new visa waiters, in getting to know them or letting them get to know us because it was just trivia about the sisters that had been here longer. They basically just laughed about all their inside jokes and we didn't really know what to do. And then after that they just went crazy and started wrestling and stuff. It was kind of entertaining but it just didn't feel like I was really a missionary, and so Hermana Hales and I just went and did some personal study before we went to bed at our normal time, and then woke up at 6:30 to go on a run with one of the other visa waiters who is going to Argentina eventually too (just FYI they haven't told us anything else about the visas, we're just waiting to meet with the consulate still..).

I'm really not trying to be negative here, I'm just being honest. I guess every mission president does things differently, but they had drilled this "exact obedience" thing into us so much at the MTC and then it kind of felt like a lot of those rules that aren't a huge deal or anything were ignored for a night. Also, today is P-Day too so it'll be another day of relaxing and not doing much missionary work. We do have a lesson tonight which I'm excited/nervous for, but I think all four of us are going to be teaching together which is kind of cool. The couple whose house we live in wants to take us out to dinner afterwards. I just want to be able to do what I'm here to do which is to help people learn and grow, and if I'm going to do that I have to be learning and growing too. I'm sure once we start working everything will be fine though, and that was the last "sleepover" they're doing.

Anyways that's about all I can think of to say right now. I just need some time to adjust and then I'm sure I'll be able to enjoy the time that I'll be here in Ogden/Roy. It's was great to get to talk to you on the phone even though like you said, the conversation was a little jumbled! Hearing about where all the Lax-bros are going is awesome too. I can't believe Gary is going to Argentina! I hope they fix all this visa stuff so that he can actually get there on time. Just keep me posted on what's going on with everyone- I love you guys.

Love,
HermCrawf

PS- I can email anyone now- not just family, and I have longer than just 30 minutes (even though I'll probably have a lot to say so I won't have time to email
a ton of people)!

PPS-  I forgot to mention that yes, it is strictly Spanish speaking and we're emailing from the Family History Center in Ogden. I guess our P-Days are Tuesdays then too?







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